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Travel Guidebooks

June 30, 2010 1 comment

Everyone uses guidebooks differently. Myself, I tend to read the history/culture & overview sections, and then otherwise have them with me as a reference if I need a map or perhaps suggestions on a place to stay. While there’s no right way to use one, I can’t help but feel there is a wrong way.

Your guidebook is not a bible.

Guidebooks are fallible. By their nature there’s a relatively significant time lag between when the research & reviews were conducted, and the date the book is put on bookstore shelves, let alone actually ends up in your hands. In addition, they are subjective. Take all guidebook reviews like you should any other: with a grain of salt. They are the author’s opinion. There’s nothing wrong with a little faith in their opinions, but don’t lose sight of the fact that they can be wrong; your experience may vastly differ from theirs.

Regardless of their fallibility, guidebooks are exactly that: a guide. They provide tips, ideas, suggestions, and warnings, along with helpful stuff like maps & phone numbers & approximate prices to help you budget. They give you an overview. A jumping off point. From which you then set out and explore for yourself.

The use of guidebooks as a bible is so prevalent that there now exists “The Lonely Planet Trail” in various places. This goes hand in hand in the Central American region with the Gringo trail, where virtually everyone hits the same places, the only difference usually being whether you’re heading North or heading South. Whilst this can be almost impossible to avoid in regions with un- or poorly developed infrastructure and areas that are just plain dangerous for Westerners to travel in, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be conscious of falling into the trap of relying on your guidebook to make your trip for you. Look to explore, to experience the area through your own eyes, not through what someone else has preordained for you.

That’s the beauty of travel, the real joy. Making your own discoveries. Accidentally stumbling across something fun or quirky or silly or fascinating, maybe all of those things. Talking to other travellers and hearing about their adventures, hopefully learning about places off the beaten path. Meeting locals and finding out how they view their city, learning about their culture from their perspective, not just one written by a relatively wealthy Westerner.

If what you want is someone to tell you where to go, when to go there, where to eat, where to sleep, and everything else besides, well hey: that’s your prerogative. It may even be that what you’re probably really looking for is a packaged tour, or a stay in an all-inclusive resort you never have to step foot outside of.

However if what you want is to really see the world with your own eyes, get immersed and get involved, there’s only one thing for it: put the guidebook down.

Categories: travel

Baby M

June 29, 2010 Leave a comment

I got some news yesterday. My brother & his fiance are having a baby, who for now I am dubbing “Baby M”. Unplanned, but they’re ecstatic, and so am I. :)

I was surprisingly overwhelmed by emotion when I found out. He told me via facebook message; wanted to Skype me but just couldn’t wait so facebook it was instead. I’m sure the fact that I was alone at the time contributed to it, but I ended up in tears. Tears of joy, and tears of the sudden and oppressive feeling of being isolated and totally alone, far away from home.

I had guilt about the strength of my reaction, about feeling differently upon hearing the news that they’re having a baby, than I did when I received the news when both of my stepsisters had children. To be clear – although I don’t see them often, they’re my family, and I love each and every one of them.

But I was left wondering… What does this say about me? Am I terrible person? Does this mean that I would love them differently, love one more than the another?

I’ve thought about it a lot. Probably too much, but I’ve realised something. It’s not about the kids, or about the baby, or about my stepsisters, or about me as a person. It’s about my brother, and how much I love him and admire him and respect him, and how proud I am of him. About how even though we fought like it would win the victor a million dollars & bring eternal pain to the loser when we were kids, through circumstance as teenagers we learned to look out for one another, fight for and defend each other, and that we could depend on each other. About how he’s one of my favourite people on the entire planet and how lucky I am to have him as a brother. About how much I miss hanging out with him, shooting the shit over a beer, having a laugh. About how I can’t wait to see him become the amazing dad I know he’s going to be, and how special that kid will be just by having my brother (and his beautiful fiance, of course) in his or her life.

That’s what it’s about.

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Meep

June 29, 2010 Leave a comment

This blog started out life as a place to post the travel update emails I was sending home – which is why the earliest posts read like they’re directed at a very specific audience. It’s evolving from there, hopefully into something that I’ll actually be happy having people read on a regular basis, should they choose to do so.

I have a bunch of posts either in partly written form or swirling around my head as nothing more than a half-formed idea. I’ve had a hideous case of writer’s block that seems to be calming down. Hopefully this will result in actually getting this updated the way I want to, and soon. I think I’m going to backdate at least some of the posts to get the timeline the way I want it, so if you do happen to be reading along, you may see posts in a higgledypiggley fashion.

Categories: miscellaneous

Green Tortoise, Seattle

June 11, 2010 Leave a comment
The Good:
Each bed has its own reading lamp, its own fan, and privacy curtains. You also have your own lockable storage (own lock required), and in the room I was staying in, a fully functional ladder to reach the top bunk. The location is top notch, right at Pike Place Market. Free breakfast daily, free dinners 3 nights a week (Sun, Tues, Thurs) and regularly organised activities ranging from pub nights to walking tours.

The Bad:
The relatively standard hotstel complaint: bathrooms. On the plus side, they were clean and sizeable, and individual use bathrooms are great. However that all falls down when there’s not enough of them to go around. Getting up in the morning and having to cross your legs & wiggle around like a kid in kindergarten while you wait for a bathroom to be free is not a pretty picture. They also had ongoing connectivity issues with their wifi. While not “bad”, the staff were so-so, and tended to seem distracted and disinterested during my times at the front desk, with not a single smile to be seen amongst them.

The Ugly:
Nothing, which is handy since the Tortoise is really the only hostel option in downtown Seattle.

I spent 4 nights at the Tortoise. 1 night in an 8-bed dorm: $28
http://www.greentortoise.net/
105 Pike Place, Seattle
1.206.340.1222
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